Leadership Strategies for Thriving Today
Episode 4: Interview with Aaron Delgaty, Anthropologist of Work at TSC
In this episode, Kim Bohr and anthropologist Aaron Delgaty, PhD dive deep into the “arrival fallacy” – the pervasive belief that happiness and fulfillment lie just beyond the next project deadline, quarter, or milestone. Drawing from extensive research on workplace dynamics, they explore how four essential elements – continuity, reciprocity, purpose, and hope – shape our working relationships and overall job satisfaction. Through the lens of anthropology and organizational behavior, they examine why we fall into patterns of perpetually postponing contentment and how this impacts everything from team dynamics to bottom-line business outcomes.
The conversation weaves together insights from Gallup’s research on employee engagement, real-world examples of boundary setting, and practical strategies for breaking free from the “things will get better” cycle. Delgaty shares his unique perspective on why studying human behavior is crucial for understanding workplace dynamics, while Bohr brings her expertise in executive coaching and team alignment to offer actionable solutions. Together, they challenge listeners to have honest conversations with themselves and their colleagues about work relationships, discussing why misalignment isn’t always about bad management and how to recognize when it’s time to make changes. This episode offers valuable insights for leaders looking to create more sustainable and fulfilling work environments, both for themselves and their teams.
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Key Takeaways:
- Having honest conversations with yourself and others is crucial for maintaining healthy working relationships
- The four essential elements of working relationships are: continuity, reciprocity, purpose, and hope
- Setting clear boundaries is vital for sustainable work practices and personal wellbeing
- Misalignment in work relationships isn’t always about bad management – sometimes it’s about fit
- Even introverts need to talk about workplace challenges to create positive change
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Episode Resources:
A Working Relationships Self-Assessment Workbook
A practical framework for strengthening the four pillars of fulfilling work relationships while breaking free from the cycle of "I'll be happy when..."
